While this information seems geared more towards younger children, think of your teen and see if it fits as well.

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To understand which of these goals your child is seeking, observe the consequences of his behavior:

  1. Observe your own feelings and reactions to the child’s misbehavior.
  2. 2. Observe the child’s response to your attempts at correction.

**The above guide is taken from “Systematic Training for Effective Parenting” by D. Dinkmeyer and G. McKay.